by Rosiland Sedacca, CCT All parents struggle with communication issues as their children grow, but children who have had their lives altered by separation or divorce need even more attention – and diligent observation by their parents. Children tend not to tell you when they are angry, resentful, confused, hurt or depressed. Instead they reflect their problems through their behavior – acting out or perhaps turning inward in ways that you have not experienced prior … Continue reading →

By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT After exploring divorce in America and other countries around the world it’s not hard to come to one conclusion. It is not divorce per se that emotionally scars children. It is the parents approach to divorce that determines the positive or negative impact on the kids. The more I talk to divorced parents, the more I find this to be the truth. Many studies indicate that children experience less emotional distress … Continue reading →

Welcome to author, coach and founder of Child Centered Divorce, Rosalind Sedacca, as a new contributor on Cofamilies. In this article, Rosiland shares why it hurts kids to hear negative things about their other parent. From a child’s perspective, insulting your former spouse feels to them like there is something wrong with them, too, since your child is a product of both of you. Read on to hear practical ideas and advice. _______________________________________________________________________ By Rosalind … Continue reading →

by Floyd Borakove, Rocky Mountain Mediation In the heat of separating or divorcing, the extended family is often forgotten in the discussion details. It is difficult enough for the children when their parents separate but for them to lose regular contact with grandparents can be increasingly devastating (to those who had close healthy relationships). Some areas to explore include: How to arrange for visits and generally sustain a healthy relationship within the context of the … Continue reading →